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Why Loving Your Narcissist HURTS so much!
Why Loving Your Narcissist HURTS so much!
Loving the narcissist is a very agonizing experience. Why?Lack of empathyIndifference after lovebombing: death of a dream and the shared fantasyWithdrawal and avoidanceScouting for alternatives and discardSexlessnessParanoia PossessivenessNarcissistic rageDepression“Love” conditioned on performanceIntermittent reinforcementDevaluationMemory lapses and confabulationsImpaired reality testing (grandiosity as cognitive distortion)MiscommunicationIntransigenceFind and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60F8EC8A-5812-4007-9F2C-DFA02EA713B3
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Why Loving Your Narcissist HURTS so much!
Hoovered by Narcissist? Now What?
Hoovered by Narcissist? Now What?
Hoovering involves re-idealization of a persecutory object (or of an object re-idealized with successive partners) within a resumption of a disrupted shared fantasy. It is an attempt to establish object constancy based on introject constancy at the exact point of the breakup. Time stands still (dissociation and confabulation). The object is frozen in time. Hoovering shared fantasy unstable because it has lost its raison d’etre: separation (accomplished in the discard phase). It revolves, therefore, around individuation which, in the narcissist’s case is antisocial (defiance, contumaciousness, recklessness, etc.) and self-defeating or self-destructive.Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60F8EC8A-5812-4007-9F2C-DFA02EA713B3
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Hoovered by Narcissist? Now What?
So Long as Ego is our Identity, Our Essential Narcissism will Lay Dormant and Express Under Stress
So Long as Ego is our Identity, Our Essential Narcissism will Lay Dormant and Express Under Stress
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So Long as Ego is our Identity, Our Essential Narcissism will Lay Dormant and Express Under Stress