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Your Trauma is Lying to You
Your Trauma is Lying to You
Have you ever found yourself believing that you are not deserving of good things? This could be a trauma response. But please remember you are worthy of lo...
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Your Trauma is Lying to You
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trauma + manipulation
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Do Narcissists Mellow with Age? (Studies)
Do Narcissists Mellow with Age? (Studies)
Academics not immune to the temptations of instant celebrity guaranteed by churning out a study about narcissism. Difference between real study (randomized trial), population study, and meta analysis. Meta analyses “have the potential to mislead seriously, particularly if specific study designs, within-study biases, variation across studies, and reporting biases are not carefully considered.” (Cochrane Training) Problems with this and most other studies and meta analyses about narcissism: They are not randomized trial Many use proprietary tests and questionnaires that are not validated Children and adolescents included Dearth of people diagnosed with NPD and no comorbidities. Most subjects are narcissistic style and dark triad. Subjects only from the industrialized countries, white, male, often college students Arbitrary, idiosyncratic classifications Nine clinical features and trait domains of narcissism: Lack of empathy Fear of intimacy (insecure attachment style) Disturbed or diffuse identity Attention seeking behaviors Grandiosity (cognitive distortion) Anankastia Negative affectivity, including fragility (bad object) Dissociality (antisocial behaviors) Antagonism Only the last 2 traits mellow with age, not owing to learning from experience (the narcissist is incapable of that), but probably for biological reasons. The same mellowing is observed in psychopaths and borderlines. LITERATURE Orth, U., Krauss, S., & Back, M. D. (2024). Development of narcissism across the life span: A meta-analytic review of longitudinal studies.Psychological Bulletin, 150(6), 643–665. https://doi.org/10.1037/bul0000436   Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60F8EC8A-5812-4007-9F2C-DFA02EA713B3
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Do Narcissists Mellow with Age? (Studies)
Narcissist’s Weaponized Honesty as Self-supply in Late Onset Narcissism
Narcissist’s Weaponized Honesty as Self-supply in Late Onset Narcissism
The narcissist's honesty is weaponized in 2 ways: 1. Self-disclosure intended to hurt or disillusion 2. Hurtful observations. Such sadism is antisocial. Narcissist indulges in it when he had become completely self-sufficient via self-supply (self-audiencing). Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60F8EC8A-5812-4007-9F2C-DFA02EA713B3
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Narcissist’s Weaponized Honesty as Self-supply in Late Onset Narcissism
How Covert Narcissist’s Weaponizes Pseudo-humility (Preemptive Self-disclosure, Feigned Honesty)
How Covert Narcissist’s Weaponizes Pseudo-humility (Preemptive Self-disclosure, Feigned Honesty)
WATCH Narcissist's False Modesty (Pseudo-Humility) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iywb0NPOJtE WATCH Why Narcissist APPEARS So STUPID https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gt6IfAc1a5A Pseudo (as-if Personality): stupidity, honesty, humility Fish for compliments, elicit supply, a form of grandiosity (ostensibly inverted), humblebrag Minimize expectations and guarantee triumph Self-disclosure to avoid guilt, blame, and shame Defense against rejection, humiliation, criticism (avoidant, vulnerable, fragile) Ferret out traitors and sources of negative supply Test narratives and pitches Pseudo-honesty Manipulate via impression management and expectations Gaslighting and leveraged counterfactuals Conformity (where humility is a virtue) Virtue signaling Self-victimization (presentation) or masochistic self-defeat Intentional triggering, manipulation, behavior modification, elicited aggression (fake modesty perceived as Machiavellian lying) At the service of passive-aggression Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60F8EC8A-5812-4007-9F2C-DFA02EA713B3
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How Covert Narcissist’s Weaponizes Pseudo-humility (Preemptive Self-disclosure, Feigned Honesty)
The Most Difficult Thing.
The Most Difficult Thing.
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The Most Difficult Thing.